Comments for Snackie's World http://snackiepoo.com Sat, 31 Jul 2010 15:19:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Shelli http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-389 Shelli Sat, 31 Jul 2010 15:19:21 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-389 I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said, but I just wanted you to know that I loves ya. I don’t know what to say that hasn’t already been said, but I just wanted you to know that I loves ya.

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Sybil Law http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-388 Sybil Law Sat, 31 Jul 2010 01:38:17 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-388 I prefer seeing all sides of someone, anyway. :) You are such a great writer! I prefer seeing all sides of someone, anyway. :)
You are such a great writer!

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Scott http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-385 Scott Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:10:04 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-385 Thank you for this. I know you don't know me yet but really, thank you. Thank you for this. I know you don’t know me yet but really, thank you.

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by CP http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-384 CP Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:06:03 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-384 Hilmuffin... Changing. Evolving. Growing. It is a permanent process in the life of a woman. Mourn, because it is within your right to do so. But, the heart? It must remain open, even at the risk of it getting broken once more. Love walks in, love walks out. And, when we're really lucky...love comes in with a bottle of really good wine, starts a warm fire in the hearth and makes love to you nightly on a bearskin rug. Only then is it okay to shut the door and lock it behind you. I want for you what I have found for myself and that is the treasure of a good man who will value you in every way possible. This person will see flaws as "quirks". Weight gain will merely be "more of you to love". Sadness is acceptable, not just tolerated. Anger is seen as a prelude to foreplay. Laughter is the remedy that heals all. Trust abounds. I found all of this 10 years ago. The door is now bolted shut. Love lives here once more. And man, is it ever sweet. All this, I wish for you. Be open to it, don't fear it. When it's right, it will never hurt again. I love you, my sister. Hilmuffin…

Changing. Evolving. Growing. It is a permanent process in the life of a woman. Mourn, because it is within your right to do so. But, the heart? It must remain open, even at the risk of it getting broken once more. Love walks in, love walks out. And, when we’re really lucky…love comes in with a bottle of really good wine, starts a warm fire in the hearth and makes love to you nightly on a bearskin rug. Only then is it okay to shut the door and lock it behind you. I want for you what I have found for myself and that is the treasure of a good man who will value you in every way possible. This person will see flaws as “quirks”. Weight gain will merely be “more of you to love”. Sadness is acceptable, not just tolerated. Anger is seen as a prelude to foreplay. Laughter is the remedy that heals all. Trust abounds.

I found all of this 10 years ago. The door is now bolted shut. Love lives here once more. And man, is it ever sweet. All this, I wish for you. Be open to it, don’t fear it. When it’s right, it will never hurt again.

I love you, my sister.

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by CP http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-383 CP Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:59:46 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-383 @Anonymouse, I have no idea who you are, but I totes love you for these comments to mah Hilly. This was my exact stance on the all the bullshit for so long. Those people in Florida are/were a bunch of haters, phony to each other and lying to themselves. And while Hilly leaving Florida meant I lost my ability to see her at will...I was willing to take that one on the chin so she would cross the country and find happiness again. Here, here! Team Hilly all the way!! @Anonymouse, I have no idea who you are, but I totes love you for these comments to mah Hilly. This was my exact stance on the all the bullshit for so long. Those people in Florida are/were a bunch of haters, phony to each other and lying to themselves. And while Hilly leaving Florida meant I lost my ability to see her at will…I was willing to take that one on the chin so she would cross the country and find happiness again. Here, here! Team Hilly all the way!!

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Hilly http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-382 Hilly Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:52:45 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-382 Most of this wasn't about those people and that situation but sure, a little of it was. The thing is that I am happy. I don't need to martyr myself or gather an army in order to feel good about who I am. We'll leave it at that. Most of this wasn’t about those people and that situation but sure, a little of it was. The thing is that I am happy. I don’t need to martyr myself or gather an army in order to feel good about who I am.

We’ll leave it at that.

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Hilly http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-381 Hilly Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:46:21 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-381 I find myself fighting off tears so much but then liking them when it is all over. Crying is like losing ones virginity repeatedly. ;) I find myself fighting off tears so much but then liking them when it is all over.

Crying is like losing ones virginity repeatedly. ;)

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Hilly http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-380 Hilly Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:45:41 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-380 He really IS adorable and after talking to you earlier today, you so nailed who he is. I mean, it would be pretty hard to figure it out at this point in time, haha. He really IS adorable and after talking to you earlier today, you so nailed who he is.

I mean, it would be pretty hard to figure it out at this point in time, haha.

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Anonymouse http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-379 Anonymouse Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:02:58 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-379 Also, fame whores follow fame whores. Those people were never your friends. They talked shit about you even when you were "in the fold". You are above them in every way possible. Trust that. I am not the only one who sees this and you have a "team" whether you want one or not. Also, fame whores follow fame whores. Those people were never your friends. They talked shit about you even when you were “in the fold”. You are above them in every way possible. Trust that. I am not the only one who sees this and you have a “team” whether you want one or not.

]]> Comment on That’s Alright Because I Like The Way It Hurts… by Anonymouse http://snackiepoo.com/2010/07/lovesong/comment-page-1/#comment-378 Anonymouse Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:00:36 +0000 http://snackiepoo.com/?p=86#comment-378 I'm just going to say what lots of people are thinking here: you had a shit deal and got blamed and abandoned when you dared call out others' crappy behavior. You may have caused some of that yourself but you also handled that situation with class and dignity, something the "other side" lacked. OF COURSE you retreated and became cold and hard. If I had that much opposition, I would too. I'm not saying you're perfect or you didn't make mistakes in that situation but MY GOD those people should leave you alone and let you live your life since you've tried to quietly put this all behind you like a good person does. If I had people jumping ship to take sides in something that is none of their business (people who claimed to be friends as we know net people never are), I too would have shut down and just not given a rats ass about who left next. You did what you had to and AGAIN, you did it quietly unlike some people who need to have an audience to survive. Good for you. Good for you for saying this and admitting your pain in everything. Good for you for focusing on the people who matter and who stand by you no matter what. Good for you for loving yourself enough to not accept shit ass fuckers in your life. Go get yours, girl. Love him. Love him hard and love him with everything you have. You don't need an internet following because you have REAL LOVE in your life. Screw the rest. I’m just going to say what lots of people are thinking here: you had a shit deal and got blamed and abandoned when you dared call out others’ crappy behavior. You may have caused some of that yourself but you also handled that situation with class and dignity, something the “other side” lacked.

OF COURSE you retreated and became cold and hard. If I had that much opposition, I would too. I’m not saying you’re perfect or you didn’t make mistakes in that situation but MY GOD those people should leave you alone and let you live your life since you’ve tried to quietly put this all behind you like a good person does. If I had people jumping ship to take sides in something that is none of their business (people who claimed to be friends as we know net people never are), I too would have shut down and just not given a rats ass about who left next. You did what you had to and AGAIN, you did it quietly unlike some people who need to have an audience to survive.

Good for you. Good for you for saying this and admitting your pain in everything. Good for you for focusing on the people who matter and who stand by you no matter what. Good for you for loving yourself enough to not accept shit ass fuckers in your life.

Go get yours, girl. Love him. Love him hard and love him with everything you have. You don’t need an internet following because you have REAL LOVE in your life. Screw the rest.

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